Goodbye, Things: The New Japanese Minimalism
Quotes from the Book
The objective of a diet is to find a lifestyle that is sustainable without suffering.
A friend of mine says he grins every time he fails at something. To him, failing is discovering a method that won't work, and it brings you one step closer to succeeding. find many methods that don't work and one day, you'll find a method that does. Seen this way, failure is almost the same as success.
Writing a diary for the purpose of acquiring habits.
No me molesta no conseguir resultados, si hago lo que debo. Lo que me hace sentir mal es cuando sé que no estoy haciendo lo que debería.
Don’t be caught up with success! Be caught up with development. —Keisuke Honda
Don’t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive and then go do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive. —Howard Thurman
«Quería aprender a tocar el violín cuando tenía sesenta años, pero no lo hice porque pensé que era demasiado tarde». Si hubiera empezado en aquel momento, habría tocado el violín treinta años.
Lo primero que debemos tener en cuenta es que la consciencia y la fuerza de voluntad no son las causas que impulsan nuestras acciones. Desafortunadamente, no somos nuestros amos y señores. Debemos reconocer este hecho con serenidad.
Fracasar solo significa que el método que has intentado no era el correcto, no que sea culpa tuya
Fracasar solo significa que e método que has intentado no era el correcto, no que sea culpa tuya.
No gastar energía no equivale a descansar. Puedes descansar en el verdadero sentido de la palabra si eres proactivo y realizas una actividad que disfrutas, como salir y estar en contacto con la naturaleza.
La emoción de la alegría que se genera cuando nos colocamos limonada en la boca, o cuando chocamos esos cinco, nos permitirá recuperar nuestra fuerza de voluntad. En cambio, la incertidumbre y la falta de confianza son emociones negativas que agotan nuestra fuerza de voluntad. En este caso, caemos en un círculo vicioso de fuerza de voluntad reducida que nos lleva a no poder enfrentarnos al siguiente reto.
La fuerza de voluntad se ve afectada por las emociones y se pierde debido a la incertidumbre y la duda. Aunque se haga algo que requiera fuerza de voluntad, no se perderá, siempre que tengas un sentido de la autoestima.
Isn’t willpower simply a matter of your blood sugar level?
We can wait for our marshmallows if we’re feeling good
People who slack off in the morning also tend to slack off in the afternoon.
The level of our happiness is said to decrease when we have more than seven free hours in a day. Serotonin is inert in the brains of people who suffer from depression. A person with strong willpower isn't tempted in the first place. Your willpower will be lost if you give in to negative emotions like uncertainty or doubt. When that happens, the brain takes instinctive action and tells you to try to grab the reward in front of you. As a result you may eat or drink too much or lose the motivation to do anything. Then, later, you regret those actions and feel more stress. 45% of our actions are habits rather than decisions made on the spot. To dye a dirty cloth, you must first wash it. ( a teaching of Ayurveda ) There is value to anything if you take it seriously. You often become susceptible to addictions if the rewards come quickly. People who are unable to clean up or part with their things will sometimes feel anger towards minimalists and I believe it's because some part of them is anxious about their own actions. Our present identities shouldn't constrain our future actions. The time after you get up is the time when you can concentrate the best. As the day goes by, unexpected things and distractions will happen and build up so it's best to do what you want to do in the morning. Waking up early is a must and if you lose that first battle, you will lose in all the battles. Realize that enthusiasm won't occur before you do something. You won't feel motivated unless you start acting. Amazon rules over the buying habits of so many people because its hurdles are extremely low. People's motivation will easily go away when faced with a simple hurdle. When you quit something, it's easier to quit it completely. With acquiring a habit, it's the opposite, easier to do it every day. A plan relieves you of the torment of choice. Success is a consequence and must not be a goal. The result will be burnout if you only have a target. All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence and then success is sure. Mark Twain To have a sense of self-efficacy is to believe "I can do this!". It's the belief that you can change, grow, learn and overcome new challenges. Talking about someone's talent can wait until you've exceeded the effort that that person has made. If we changed houses periodically, we would have the joy of exploring our new environment each time and there would also be the joy of gaining control over each new environment, This instinct is probably what drives curiosity and the desire for self-development. If we don't cultivate our own opportunities for development, we'll only be able to find joy in modern society's "ready-made" fun. Activities structured so that we have to "Enjoy this in this way", where the way to have fun is already decided, will eventually bore us. And then, someday, we'll be bored with ourselves. Making it a habit to seek unique opportunities for development and gaining the sense that we're always doing something new: these are things that satisfy human instinct. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts we make the world. The Dhammapada, The Sayings of the Buddha Something that you thought was your personality can change with a simple habit. People are instinctively inclined to get bored of what they have now and pursue new things. So no matter how successful they become, they will worry and find reasons to feel uncertain. They will get used to any environment and they will get bored with it. Training in Buddhism: when cleaning is part of the training, you're taught to thoroughly eliminate rationalizations such as " this is already clean, so it doesn't have to be cleaned.
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Goodbye, Things: The New Japanese Minimalism
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The internationally best-selling author of Goodbye, Things shares insights and practices to help you become the best version of yourself.
Fumio Sasaki changed his life when he became a minimalist. But before minimalism could really stick, he had to make it a habit. All of us live our lives based on the habits we’ve formed, from when we get up in the morning, to what we eat and drink, to how likely we are to actually make it to the gym. In Hello, Habits, Sasaki explains how we can acquire the new habits that we want―and get rid of the ones that don’t do us any good.
Drawing on leading theories and tips about the science of habit formation from cognitive psychology, neuroscience, and sociology, along with examples from popular culture and tried-and-tested techniques from his own life, he unravels common misperceptions about "willpower" and "talent," and offers a step-by-step guide
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