Men Explain Things to Me
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Has anyone ever told you that they’re protecting you, or that they know you better than you know yourself, or that no one will ever love you like they do? Have you ever said those words? Consider what those sentiments mean. It’s all violence, when you think about it.
But you’ll always be a hero, just for doing what a million women do everywhere every day.
There doesn't seem to be an adequate answer beyond the fact that none of us is just one thing. Especially not women, who so often contain the burden of multitudes.
I hate the way we’re always encouraged to think of a chemical, rather than lifestyle, solution.
Seagulls were shrieking outside, and the wind had picked up again, rushing through the trees in the garden and rattling the windows, so it sounded like a million women screaming.
Fear is always biding its time, waiting for an opportunity to assure us of its dominance
Men like Cole believe they’re right because society has told them that they are their whole lives. And, as a result, they find it difficult to be told “no.
I’m a woman, which means I have to expect to be seen as an unlikable character.
But the truth is, men who want to protect women should never be trusted because we only feel the impulse to protect the things we think of as weaker than ourselves.
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About Araminta Hall
About the book
If most men claim to be good, why are most women still afraid to walk home alone at night?
Desperate to escape the ghosts of his failed marriage, Cole upends his life. He leaves London behind for a remote stretch of coast, relishing the respite from the noise, drama, and relentless careerism that curdled his relationship and mental health. Leonora has made the same move for similar reasons. She’s living a short walk from Cole’s seaside cottage, preparing for her latest art exhibition. Although Cole still can’t figure out what went wrong with his marriage, and Leonora is having trouble acclimating to the hostile landscape, the pair forges a connection on the eroding bluff they call home.
Then two young female activists raising awareness about gendered violence disappear while passing through. Cole and Leonora suddenly find themselves in the middle of a police investigation--and the
Book details
- First published
- 2024
- Author
- Araminta Hall
- Genre
- Thriller
- Goodreads rating
- 3.46 (12k ratings)
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