Quotes from The Rules of Survival

Nancy Werlin ·  272 pages

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“ MATTHEW'S RULES OF SURVIVAL
1. Sometimes, the people who mean you harm are the ones who say they love you.
2. Fear is your friend. When you feel it, act.
3. Protect the little ones.
4. If you coped before, you can cope now.
5. Always remember: In the end, the survivor gets to tell the story.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


“No. It's actually not okay. And I hate when people say that, when they say it's okay even though it's not. It's better to tell the truth.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


“Always remember: In the end, the surviver gets to tell the story.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


“Emmy, the events we lived through taught me to be sure of nothing about other people. They taught me to expect danger around every corner. They taught me to understand that there are people in this world that mean you harm, And sometimes, they're the people who say they love you.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


“The human instinct for self-preservation is strong. I know, because mine pulls at me, too, like the needle on a compass. And everybody - I've been reading some philosophy - everybody seems to agree that the instinct and responsibility of all humans is to take care of themselves first. You have the right to self-defense. You have the right to survive, if you can.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival



“But I know that I'm not who I was supposed to be. Who I could have been. And I know it's because I was too afraid for too long.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


“What you did was enough," I said. "We didn't need a superhero. Just an adult who acted to help us when I asked.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


“As long as I live, when you need help, you will never need to beg anyone to notice. I won't just hang around thinking I ought to do something to help.

I will act.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


“Demons are real. Since I'm not religious, I think of them as metaphors for the evil desires and impulses all humans have. A religious person can think of them as separate evil beings that can possess you. Either way, I believe they exist, lurking patiently around and in us, whispering their twisted points of view, ever alert for an opportunity. The sudden chink in your armor when you're tired, frightened, or angry. The invitation you issue in that moment of vulnerability.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


“Fear isn't actually a bad thing. It's a primitive instinct that's your friend. It warms you to pay attention, because you're in danger. It tells you to do something, to act, to save yourself.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival



“When you're living your life in endurance mode, you don't expect anything good to happen. I'm not saying you don't dream about some miracle that would change everything for the better. But you pretty much know it's only a fantasy, and that you have no real control over anything.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


“But I know that I am not who I was supposed to be, who I could have been, and I know it's because I was too afraid for too long. It made me think about things I never should have.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


“I think the fear gets into your blood. It makes your subatomic particles twist and distort. You change, chemically. The fear changes, too. It because not your helper, but your master. You are a slave to it.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


“The events we live through taught me to be sure of nothing about other people. They taught me to expect danger around every corner. They taught me to understand that there are people in this world who mean you harm. And sometimes, they're people you say they love you.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


“The events we live through taught me to be sure of nother about other people. They taught me to expect danger around every corner. They taught me to understand that there are people in this world who mean you harm. And sometimes, they're people you say they love you.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival



“The survivor gets to tell the story.”
― Nancy Werlin, quote from The Rules of Survival


About the author

Nancy Werlin
Born place: The United States
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