Quotes from A Stolen Life

Jaycee Dugard ·  273 pages

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“I learned in therapy the word "No" is a complete sentence.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“I don't believe in hate. To me it wastes too much time. People who hate waste so much of their life hating that they miss out on all the other stuff out here.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“We live in a world where we rarely speak out and when someone does, often nobody is there to listen.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“I enjoy life so much more now, and I try hard to appreciate each and every day, but deep down I am still afraid it will be taken away.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“Hearts become attached as easily as they become broken and our minds are left sifting through the pieces, which I fear take a lifetime to put back together to achieve any form of acceptance.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life



“Love is not part time and its not conditional. I learned this from my mom.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“Love is the easy part; it's the living without the love you need is hard.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“There are moments in which all of us need to have a backbone and feel that we have the right to say no to adults if we believe they are doing the wrong thing. You must find your voice and not be afraid to speak up.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“A light that I thought had been extinguished was slowly coming back to life.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“Ask yourself, "what would you do to survive?”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life



“The fact is it happened. It's over now. I do not live my life constantly wishing that I could change the past.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“Our relationship was built on a house of cards. One good blow and you find the pieces scatter in the wind quite easily.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“Is life worth living simply because you live, or is it worth more if you make life happen?”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“I've learned that verbal abuse can be just as damaging as physical abuse and take longer to heal from.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“Genes, I have learned, do not make a family. Families are the people that stick around through good and bad times. Sadness is a part of life. Choosing to be happy and see the glass half full is a struggle we all must make.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life



“She reminds me of a turtle; you can never quite know wha ta turtle is thinking.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“I love metaphors and she has come up with the idea of lighting candles to symbolize my past, present, and future. My past and present were the two candles we started with; she would ask me what I would like to start with or deal with today. I would light up either my past or my present depending on the answer. During the last few sessions we've used the candles I've noticed my past melting more and more and becoming duller and duller in light.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“Even if it is just one thing or person you have to be thankful for, that is enough.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“For nothing contributes so much to tranquilize the ind as a steady purpose -- a point on which the soul may fix its intellectual eye.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“I am not proud of that today, but I did what I had always done... tried to survive an impossible situation.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life



“T. S. Eliot once wrote, “I said to my soul be still, and wait without hope; for hope would be hope for the wrong thing.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“Families are like snowflakes: they come in many shapes and sizes and no two are the same. And like a snowflake, they are very delicate and must be protected and guarded from elements that threaten to destroy their precarious balance.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“People who hate waste so much of their life hating that they miss out on all the other stuff out here.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“I am so lucky and blessed for all the wonderful things that I do have. Life is too short to think about all the things you don’t have.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


“My trust and hope were indeed put in the wrong person(s), but nevertheless it still lived.”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life



“did I have? He controlled everything. He said Nancy”
― Jaycee Dugard, quote from A Stolen Life


About the author

Jaycee Dugard
Born place: in Anaheim, California, The United States
Born date May 3, 1980
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The end of public authority is to realize the moral law, a task for which both knowledge and understanding as well as the possession of power are indispensable means. Yet inherent in power is the tendency to breed conceit. " . . . one of the most striking and one of the most pervasive features of the prophetic polemic [is] the denunciation and distrust of power in all its forms and guises. The hunger of the powerfit! knows no satiety; the appetite grows on what it feeds. Power exalts itself and is incapable of yielding to any transcendent judgment; it 'listens to no voice' (Zeph. 3:2) ." It is the bitter irony of history that the common people, who are devoid of power and are the prospective victims of its abuse, are the first to become the ally of him who accumulates power. Power is spectacular, while its end, the moral law, is inconspicuous.”
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