Reflections of a Man

When he texts you, he’s thinking about you. When he calls you, he misses you. When he shows up, he wants you. When he suddenly stops doing all of the above for you, he’s doing it for someone else.

You just have to say to yourself, "I am not willing to accept anything less than what I deserve! I am smart! I am Beautiful! I am a good woman and I deserve to be happy!" It all starts with you.

A strong woman with a beautiful smile is attractive, but a strong woman with a beautiful mind is addictive.

Never waste your time trying to convince someone else of your worth. If they can't see it, they are not worth the effort.

As long as you hold on to your anger for the wrong man of the past, he will forever have control over your ability to be happy in the future.” A lot of you have moved on physically, but you still carry the pain and the anger that he caused you inside. Give yourself a fair chance to find true happiness. Now is the time to finally let him go.

If you are going to love her, give her 100% or nothing at all. Anything less and you are, not only cheating her, but you are cheating yourself as well.

A woman’s silence is one of her most powerful forms of communication; it conveys emotions, so intense, that no words could possibly describe how she feels at that moment.

In your relationship, you should not have to play the detective to get to the truth; you should be able to ask the question and he give you the answer. It should be as simple as that.

When a strong woman finally gives up, it’s not because she‘s weak or because she no longer loves her man. To put it in the simplest terms…she’s just tired. She’s tired of the games…she’s tired of the sleepless nights…she’s tired of feeling like she’s all alone and the only one trying… she’s tired.

She wants to give in to you; mind, body, and soul. All she needs from you is the assurance that you won’t make her regret it in the end.

You can measure the true strength of a man by how well he controls others, but you measure his true power by how well he controls himself

She’s not stupid! Don’t try to play her like she is. You’re insulting her intelligence. If you’re not careful, you’ll one day find yourself on the outside wishing you could get back in.

As we grow, keep in mind as our spirits combine and your heart beats in tune with mine;

Ultimatums Rarely Work “When a man tells you that he is not ready to commit, believe him the first time. You can’t convince him that he is ready. You will only be fooling yourself.

There is no such thing as a self-made man; that’s just an example of a man too caught up in himself to look around and acknowledge the strength of the woman standing next to him.

The best sex in the world, without love, still won’t fill that void. It’s a quick fix and you won’t realize it until you wake up the next morning and realize you’re still alone.

When He Stops Doing The Small Things “When he texts you, he’s thinking about you. When he calls you, he misses you. When he shows up, he wants you. When he suddenly stops doing all of the above for you, he’s doing it for someone else.

Stop making rules, in your relationship, that you expect them to follow, but you are unwilling to follow yourself.

One of the most frustrating positions you, as a good woman, could ever find yourself in, is in a relationship with a man who makes you feel like you’re still single.” Being in a relationship with a man that has no time for you, shows you no affection, and makes you feel like, half the time, you’re still single… what’s the point?

When the trust is gone, everything else will soon follow

You can’t be mad at her for leaving when you are the one who pushed her away.

Cheating is never an accident; it is a conscious decision.

Some people get a second chance while others don't because some people are willing to change while others won't.

When your love is real, it's hard to just stop loving someone... even after they've proven to you over and over again that they don't deserve your love.

What hurts you the most is not the fact that it's over, but rather that you chose to waste your time with him in the first place.

When in a relationship, never let your ego write a check that only a single man can cash.

The reality is that sometimes, it takes more strength to let go than it does to keep holding on.

Have you ever felt like your heart had been ripped right out of your chest... like when they walked out the door, they took with them your very last breath?