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“When a man can listen to a woman's feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift.
He makes it safe for her to express herself.
The more she is able to express herself, the more she feels heard and understood, and the more she is able to give a man the loving trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement that he needs.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“Men are motivated when they feel needed while women are motivated when they feel cherished.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“" when men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom ”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“Because she is afraid of not being supported, she unknowingly pushes away the support she needs.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“Love brings up our unresolved feelings . One day we are feeling loved , and the next day we are suddenly afraid to trust love .
The painful memories of being rejected begin to surface when we are faced with trusting and accepting our partner's love .”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“we are unique individuals with unique experiences”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“If we are to feel the positive feelings of love, happiness, trust, and gratitude, we periodically also have to feel anger, sadness, fear, and sorrow.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“If I seek to fulfill my own needs at the expense of my partner, we are sure to experience unhappiness, resentment, and conflict. The secret of forming a successful relationship is for both partners to win.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“Not to be needed is a slow death for a man.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“ان اكبر تحديات الرجل ترجمة كلام المرأة اذا تحدثت و مساندتها بالتفهم والتأييد المناسبين للموقف و لمشاعرها... و اكبر تحديات المرأة تأويل صمت الرجل و مساندته بتقبله و دعمه بان تترك له المساحة التي يحتاج اليها”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“لا يدرك الرجل بـ أن الشئ القليل بـ النسبة إلي المرأة مهم تماما مثل الشئ الكبير :)”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“Get the love you deserve and gave your partner the love and support he deserves”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“و النساء مثل الزهريات يحفزن و يتمكن عندما يشعرن بأنهن معززات ,, و عندما لا تشعر امرأة بأنها معززة في إطار علاقة تصبح تدريجيا مسئولة بطريقة قهرية و منهكة من البذل الزائد ,, و من ناحية أخرى عندما تشعر بأنها تلقى الرعاية و الاحترام فإنها تكون مشبعة ولديها المزيد من العطاء أيضا .”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“تشعر المرأه بالدعم والمسانده اذا صدق الرجل مشاعرها , ويشعر الرجل بالرعاية والاهتمام اذا وافقته المرأة افكارها ”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“Books can inspire you to love yourself more, but by listening to, writing out, or verbally expressing your feelings you are actually doing it.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“المشاركة في مشكلاتك مع شخص آخر تعتبر على سطح الزهرة في الحقيقة علامة حب وثقة وليس عبئا”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“حاجات النساء للشعور بالتحسن عن طريق التحدث عن المشكلات أما الرجال عن طريق حل المشكلات”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“When a woman's wave rises she feels she has an abundance of love to give, but when it falls she feels her inner emptiness and needs to be filled up with love.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“Men need to remember that women talk about problems to get close and not necessarily to get solutions.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways—the ways we react and behave when we love someone.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“النية الحسنة لاتكفي....
إن الوقوع في الحب شيء سحري دائماً....تشعر كأنه أبدي وكأنه سيدوم لأبد...إننا نعتقد بسذاجة أننا مستثنون من المشكلات التي واجهها آبائنا وأمهاتنا
ولايوجد لدينا احتما بأن الحب قد يموت ومطمئنون إلى أنه وجد ليبقى وأنه مقدر لنا أن نعيش سعداء إلى الأبد ...!!! ولكن السحر يتقهقر وتكون الغلبة للحياة اليومية..!!!
ويظهر للعيان أن الرجال يتوقعون من النساء أن يفكرن وأن تكون ردود أفعالهن مثل الرجال والنساء يتوقعن أن يشعر الرجال ويتصرفنون مثل النساء ودون وعي صريح باختلافاتنا فنحن لا نأخذ الوقت الكافي لنفهم ونحترم بعضنا البعض...ونصبح كثيري المطالب قاسين ومستائين ونصدر الأحكام وغير قادرين على التحمل.
ومع أفضل وأعظم نوايا الحب يظل الحب يموت...بطريقة ما تتسلل المشكلات...يتراكم الاستياء...تتعطل الاتصالات...وتزداد عدم الثقة...وينتج الجفاء والكبت ويضيع سحر الحب”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“Wanita senang hatinya bila mempunyai teman yang dapat berbagi kesulitannya.
Lelaki senang hatinya bila dapat memecahkan kesulitannya sendirian di guanya.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“Mental chemistry creates interest, Emotional chemistry Generates Affection, Physical chemistry generates desire, and Spiritual chemistry creates love. A soulmate includes all four...and I will not settle for anything less!”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“When negative feelings are suppressed positive feelings become suppressed as well, and love dies.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“شعارهن على سطح الزهرة (الحب هو ألا يكون عليك أن تطلب أبداً ) فهي تفترض أنه اذا كان شريكها يحبها، فسوف يقوم بتقديم دعمه ولن يكون عليها أن تطلب”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“Remember, if a man needs to pull away like a rubber band, when he returns he will be back with a lot more love. Then he can listen. This is the best time to initiate conversation.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“Fortunately perfection is not a requirement for creating great relationships.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“A woman should not be judged for needing this reassurance, just as a man should not be judged for needing to withdraw.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“When she says “I feel like you are not even here,” he says “What do you mean I’m not here? Of course I am here. Don’t you see my body?”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
“Just as a man is fulfilled through working out the intricate details of solving a problem, a woman is fulfilled through talking about the details of her problems.”
― John Gray, quote from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
John Gray
Born place: in Houston, Texas, The United States
Born date January 1, 1951
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