Quotes from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“You’ll learn, as you get older, that rules are made to be broken. Be bold enough to live life on your terms, and never, ever apologize for it. Go against the grain, refuse to conform, take the road less traveled instead of the well-beaten path. Laugh in the face of adversity, and leap before you look. Dance as though EVERYBODY is watching. March to the beat of your own drummer. And stubbornly refuse to fit in.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake & help us see we are worth so much more than we're settling for.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love…but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“One of the best times for figuring out who you are & what you really want out of life? Right after a break-up.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Dance. Smile. Giggle. Marvel. TRUST. HOPE. LOVE. WISH. BELIEVE. Most of all, enjoy every moment of the journey, and appreciate where you are at this moment instead of always focusing on how far you have to go.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“There is nothing more beautiful than someone who goes out of their way to make life beautiful for others.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“If you learn to really sit with loneliness and embrace it for the gift that it is…an opportunity to get to know YOU, to learn how strong you really are, to depend on no one but YOU for your happiness…you will realize that a little loneliness goes a LONG way in creating a richer, deeper, more vibrant and colorful YOU.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Sometimes when you lose your way, you find YOURSELF.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Realize that if a door closed, it’s because what was behind it wasn’t meant for you.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Being brave enough to be alone frees you up to invite people into your life because you want them and not because you need them.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“It’s OKAY to be scared. Being scared means you’re about to do something really, really brave.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Celebrate the people in your life who are there because they love you for no other reason than because you are YOU.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Single” is an opportunity to live life on your own terms and not apologize.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them…but still move on without them.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Better to put your heart on the line, risk everything, and walk away with nothing than play it safe. Love is a lot of things, but “safe” isn’t one of them.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“It makes no sense to try to extend a friendship that was only meant to be a season into a lifetime.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Outer beauty pleases the EYE. Inner beauty captivates the HEART.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Toxic people will pollute everything around them. Don’t hesitate. Fumigate.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“You will never gain anyone's approval by begging for it. When you stand confident in your own worth, respect follows.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“It is necessary, and even vital, to set standards for your life and the people you allow in it.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“To get over the past, you first have to accept that the past is over. No matter how many times you revisit it, analyze it, regret it, or sweat it…it’s over. It can hurt you no more.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“You will evolve past certain people. Let yourself.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Ten years from now, make sure you can say that you CHOSE your life, you didn’t SETTLE for it.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Some steps need to be taken alone. It's the only way to really figure out where you need to go and who you need to be.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Single |sin•gle| (adjective) - Too fabulous to settle.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“If there is a particular person in your life that is repeatedly choosing not to honor you and is causing you more sadness or pain than they are joy - it might be time to release that friendship back to God and trust that it is not where you belong.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Consider the fact that maybe…just maybe…beauty and worth aren’t found in a makeup bottle, or a salon-fresh hairstyle, or a fabulous outfit. Maybe our sparkle comes from somewhere deeper inside, somewhere so pure and authentic and REAL, it doesn’t need gloss or polish or glitter to shine.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“True strength is knowing that you don't have to be strong every single second of the day.”
― Mandy Hale, quote from The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

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“Do you know about the spoons? Because you should. The Spoon Theory was created by a friend of mine, Christine Miserandino, to explain the limits you have when you live with chronic illness. Most healthy people have a seemingly infinite number of spoons at their disposal, each one representing the energy needed to do a task. You get up in the morning. That’s a spoon. You take a shower. That’s a spoon. You work, and play, and clean, and love, and hate, and that’s lots of damn spoons … but if you are young and healthy you still have spoons left over as you fall asleep and wait for the new supply of spoons to be delivered in the morning. But if you are sick or in pain, your exhaustion changes you and the number of spoons you have. Autoimmune disease or chronic pain like I have with my arthritis cuts down on your spoons. Depression or anxiety takes away even more. Maybe you only have six spoons to use that day. Sometimes you have even fewer. And you look at the things you need to do and realize that you don’t have enough spoons to do them all. If you clean the house you won’t have any spoons left to exercise. You can visit a friend but you won’t have enough spoons to drive yourself back home. You can accomplish everything a normal person does for hours but then you hit a wall and fall into bed thinking, “I wish I could stop breathing for an hour because it’s exhausting, all this inhaling and exhaling.” And then your husband sees you lying on the bed and raises his eyebrow seductively and you say, “No. I can’t have sex with you today because there aren’t enough spoons,” and he looks at you strangely because that sounds kinky, and not in a good way. And you know you should explain the Spoon Theory so he won’t get mad but you don’t have the energy to explain properly because you used your last spoon of the morning picking up his dry cleaning so instead you just defensively yell: “I SPENT ALL MY SPOONS ON YOUR LAUNDRY,” and he says, “What the … You can’t pay for dry cleaning with spoons. What is wrong with you?” Now you’re mad because this is his fault too but you’re too tired to fight out loud and so you have the argument in your mind, but it doesn’t go well because you’re too tired to defend yourself even in your head, and the critical internal voices take over and you’re too tired not to believe them. Then you get more depressed and the next day you wake up with even fewer spoons and so you try to make spoons out of caffeine and willpower but that never really works. The only thing that does work is realizing that your lack of spoons is not your fault, and to remind yourself of that fact over and over as you compare your fucked-up life to everyone else’s just-as-fucked-up-but-not-as-noticeably-to-outsiders lives. Really, the only people you should be comparing yourself to would be people who make you feel better by comparison. For instance, people who are in comas, because those people have no spoons at all and you don’t see anyone judging them. Personally, I always compare myself to Galileo because everyone knows he’s fantastic, but he has no spoons at all because he’s dead. So technically I’m better than Galileo because all I’ve done is take a shower and already I’ve accomplished more than him today. If we were having a competition I’d have beaten him in daily accomplishments every damn day of my life. But I’m not gloating because Galileo can’t control his current spoon supply any more than I can, and if Galileo couldn’t figure out how to keep his dwindling spoon supply I think it’s pretty unfair of me to judge myself for mine. I’ve learned to use my spoons wisely. To say no. To push myself, but not too hard. To try to enjoy the amazingness of life while teetering at the edge of terror and fatigue.”
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“Sometimes, we need to take big risks if we want to find out who we are, and what we were put on this planet for.”
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“And he uncovered in us a curious need: that we each secretly wanted him to remember us the most. It was strange, both vital and flawed, until I realised that maybe the need to be remembered is stronger than the need to remember.”
― Sarah Winman, quote from When God Was a Rabbit

“You *forgot*? I will beat you with a good stout stick!”
― Bodie Thoene, quote from Vienna Prelude

“Every man or woman who makes a stand helps keep the flame of freedom burning.”
― Juliet Marillier, quote from Shadowfell

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