Tell Me How to Be
Quotes from the Book
I wasn't always this way. But the friction of life has a way of turning sharp edges into smooth ones, smooth edges into sharp ones, until you've become a duller, slightly misshapen version of your former self.
No one ever told me that happiness was like a currency: that when it goes, it goes, and that few people are willing to give you some of theirs.
It felt surreal being there with you, just like it had that summer.
But the friction of life has a way of turning sharp edges into smooth ones, smooth edges into sharp ones, until you’ve become a duller, slightly misshapen version of your former self.
People began to dance, and through the swish of flowing fabrics—gold, pink, yellow, blue—I saw your face.
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Tell Me How to Be
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In these eleven sharp, surprising stories, Neel Patel gives voice to our most deeply held stereotypes and then slowly undermines them. His characters, almost all of who are first-generation Indian Americans, subvert our expectations that they will sit quietly by. We meet two brothers caught in an elaborate web of envy and loathing; a young gay man who becomes involved with an older man whose secret he could never guess; three women who almost gleefully throw off the pleasant agreeability society asks of them; and, in the final pair of linked stories, a young couple struggling against the devastating force of community gossip.
If You See Me, Don't Say Hi examines the collisions of old world and new world, small town and big city, traditional beliefs (like arranged marriage) and modern rituals (like Facebook stalking). The men and women in these stories are full of passion, regret, env
Book details
- First published
- 2018
- Author
- Neel Patel
- Genre
- Fiction
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- 3.80 (4k ratings)
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