Jesus > Religion: Why He Is So Much Better Than Trying Harder, Doing More, and Being Good Enough
Quotes from the Book
On that day the goosebumps on our skin will read the braille of glory in God's presence. Slander and persecution will remember our names no more, and we will sing with our whole bodies a right now praise because we once gave the truth to a dying world.
Will my love for Jesus still be as loud when I’m surrounded by people who hate him?
You see, the most dangerous time to follow Jesus was not when he was alive; it was after he had been crucified, after he was considered a curse and a criminal, a blasphemer and a false prophet.
The definition of a coward is one who lacks courage to endure dangerous or unpleasant things—things like a cross and the weight of carrying one.
Using the gifts and personality God has given you, through your fears and discouragement, be bold in how you tell the truth to others.
Let us ask God to kill our pride and all the other sin inside us that might be in the way of the gospel. We don't ever want our personal conduct or behavior to be the reason someone rejects the gospel.
When we're more invested in politics than we are in people--when someone shares their story--we won't hear a testimony, but a position. We won't hear a cry, but a stance.
I believe in the last days, God will use His people to set the most rebellious souls free. If we remain faithful with God's truth, He will use us to soften the most hardened hearts. Angry fists will bloom into open palms of praise when we speak.
The way we do apologetics looks different when we are motivated not by our desire to conquer the other person, but by our genuine love and compassion, and by our desire to see people discover God's lifegiving truth.
Don't let your pride murder your message.
Did you know?
- It is Preston Perry's first book.
- The book includes a foreword by his wife, Jackie Hill Perry.
- Perry grew up in Chicago amid gangs and violence before becoming a Christian apologist.
- He and Jackie Hill Perry co-host the podcast With the Perrys.
- Perry recounts encounters with Jehovah's Witnesses, Mormons, and Hebrew Israelites in the book.
- Premier Christianity awarded the book a five-star review.
About Preston Perry
About the book
How to Tell the Truth is Preston Perry's first book, part memoir and part practical guide to evangelism and apologetics. Perry traces his own journey from a childhood marked by gangs and violence in Chicago to becoming a poet, performance artist, and Christian apologist, recounting encounters with groups such as Jehovah's Witnesses, Mormons, and Hebrew Israelites along the way. The book frames sharing faith not as a contest to be won but as an act of love aimed at people's hearts.
The central theme is that effective evangelism combines truth with compassion. Perry argues that apologetics is fundamentally a heart issue rather than merely an intellectual one, and that how a message is delivered matters as much as its content. He stresses gentleness, dignity, and respect over pride and aggression, encouraging readers to plant seeds rather than chase immediate victories in argument.
Released in 2024, the book drew favorable notices in the Christian press, with reviewers praising Perry's blend of autobiography and biblical teaching and his accessible, practical approach. Premier Christianity gave it a five-star review, while critics elsewhere noted its sincerity and its relevance for believers who feel hesitant about sharing their faith. Perry, who co-hosts the podcast With the Perrys alongside his wife Jackie Hill Perry, reached a wide audience through his existing platform in apologetics.
Book details
- First published
- 2024
- Length
- 224 pages
- Reading time
- 1 hour
- Author
- Preston Perry
- Genre
- Nonfiction
- Goodreads rating
- 4.65 (2k ratings)
Critical reception
- Premier Christianity reviewer Tony Cummings gave the book five stars, praising its blend of autobiography and biblical teaching.
- Church Times reviewer Kevin Scully appreciated Perry's personal narrative while noting parts read as 'Evangelism 101.'
- Tim Challies found the book convicting and helpful for those who do not consider themselves naturally gifted evangelists.
The buzz
- Church TimesBook review: How to Tell the Truth by Preston Perry2024Reviewer Kevin Scully on evangelical methodology
- Premier ChristianityHow to Tell the Truth - Preston Perry2024Five-star review praising the memoir-plus-teaching blend
- Premier ChristianityPreston Perry: I used to try and win the argument. Now I try and win the heart2024Author interview on his shift in approach to apologetics
If you liked this, read…
- 1TacticsGreg Koukl's practical guide to discussing faith with grace and reason.
- 2Evangelism and the Sovereignty of GodJ. I. Packer on sharing faith faithfully and lovingly.
- 3Gay Girl, Good GodJackie Hill Perry's testimony-driven memoir in a similar reflective, faith-centered vein.
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