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The Things We Do for Love

by Kristin Hannah · 2004

The Things We Do for Love is a contemporary novel by Kristin Hannah, set in a small town in the Pacific Northwest. After years of failed attempts to have a child and the collapse of her marriage, Angie DeSaria Malone returns… more

First published 2004 · 388 pages · English

28 quotes ★ 4.18 (122,179) Fiction

Quotes from the Book

You look great," he said. It made her smile, even if it was a lie. "I'm as big as a house." He laughed. "I like houses. In fact, I'm thinking about architecture as a career.
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Life keeps going. You think it'll stop, wait for you to be done crying, but it just keeps moving. Don't spend your time looking back. You don't want to miss what's ahead.
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Lauren: "Can I ask you a question?" Angie: "Generally that's a question one should say no to. Often hell no.
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You have so much love to give. It must hurt to hold it in all the time.
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...This too shall pass. Life has a way of going on, and you do your best to move with it. A broken heart heals. Like every wound, there's a scar, a memory, but it fades. Finally you realize that an hour has passed without your thinking about it, then a day...
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Sometimes we have to forgive the people we love, even if we're mad as hell. That's just how it is.
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Love can get us through the hardest times. It can also be our hardest times.
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Ever since you were a girl, you've been running for what you wanted... Now you're lost, but you're still running full speed... How will you ever figure out what you want when everything is a blur?
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Some things end. Love shouldn't be one of those things.
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Memories didn’t live on streets or in cities. They flowed in the blood, pulsed with your heartbeat.
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Sometimes your heart got broken, but you just held on. That was all there was.
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Life changes, whether you want it to or not.
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She had always been a woman with laserlike focus. When she started something, there was no halfway, no easy beginning. It was this trait that had broken her.
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...You know that food eases every trouble. Angie felt herself smiling. How many times in her life had she come home from school, devastated by some social slight, only to hear Mama say, Eat something. You'll feel better.
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Angie: "How do I pitch these ideas to her?" Mira: "From a distance, preferably wearing body armor.
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Angie looked at her. There was a heavy sadness in her eyes. "I wish I could make everything okay. But some dreams just pass us by. It's the way life is.
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Some things in life, though, couldn’t be gone in search of. They simply had to be waited for. Like the weather. You could look on the horizon and see a bank of black storm clouds. That didn’t guarantee rain tomorrow. It might just as easily dawn bright and clear. There was no damn way to tell. All you could do was keep moving and live your life.
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Things do not change; we change. —HENRY DAVID THOREAU
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The next morning, Angie woke with the sun...Her eyes felt gritty and swollen. Once again she'd watered her mattress with memories.
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You know that food eases every trouble.' Angie found herself smiling. How many times in her life had she come home from school, devastated by some social slight, only to hear Mama say, Eat something. You'll feel better... 'I've been through two divorces. Food so doesn't help. I tried to get her to put some tequila in the basket, but you know Mama.' She leaned closer. 'I have some Zoloft in my purse if you need it.
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It was like stepping barefoot on a sharp bit of broken glass. She pulled the glass out and ran on, but the pain remained.
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Conlan: "She's not Sophia." Angie: "She's somebody's Sophia.
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Mr. Lundberg: "I asked you for your position on capital punishment." Student: "Prone.
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This too shall pass. Life has a way of going on, and you do your best and move with it. A broken heart heals. Like every wound, there’s a scar, a memory, but it fades. Finally you realize that an hour has passed without your thinking about it, then a day. I don’t know if that answers your question
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Life keeps going. You think it’ll stop, wait for you to be done crying, but it just keeps moving. Don’t spend your time looking back. You don’t want to miss what’s ahead.
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Adults always talked about mistakes, the cost of doing the wrong thing. She wished she'd listened now.
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Your mama told me that if a girl grows up smelling sea air, she can never really breathe inland.
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Some things in life, though, couldn't be gone in search of. They simply had to be waited for. Like the weather. You could look out on the horizon and see a bank of black storm clouds. That did not guarantee rain tomorrow. It might just as easily dawn bright and clear. There was no damn way to tell. All you could do was keep moving and live you life.
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Did you know?

  • The novel was first published in 2004 by Ballantine Books.
  • It is a standalone contemporary novel, not part of any series.
  • The story is set in a small town in the Pacific Northwest, a region where author Kristin Hannah lives and which recurs throughout her fiction.
  • Kristin Hannah practiced law before becoming a full-time novelist.
  • The book was published years before Hannah's later historical blockbusters such as The Nightingale (2015) and The Great Alone (2018).
  • A later reissue was published in Australia under the alternate title Another Life.

About Kristin Hannah

Kristin Hannah (born September 25, 1960) is an American novelist and former lawyer who lives in the Pacific Northwest. She is the bestselling author of more than twenty novels, including The Nightingale, Firefly Lane, The Great Alone, and The Four Winds.

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About the book

The Things We Do for Love is a contemporary novel by Kristin Hannah, set in a small town in the Pacific Northwest. After years of failed attempts to have a child and the collapse of her marriage, Angie DeSaria Malone returns to her hometown and takes over the management of her family's Italian restaurant. There she hires Lauren Ribido, a hardworking seventeen-year-old who is largely fending for herself, and the two form a close bond. When Lauren is abandoned by her neglectful mother, Angie takes her in, setting in motion choices that test what family, home, and love truly mean.

At its heart the book explores motherhood and the longing for it, the meaning of family beyond blood, and the bonds that form between women across generations. Hannah weaves together grief, second chances, and self-sacrifice, examining how far people will go for those they love and the unexpected consequences of acts of kindness. The small-town Pacific Northwest setting, a recurring backdrop in Hannah's work, grounds the emotional drama in a tight-knit community.

Published in 2004 by Ballantine Books, the novel is one of the women's-fiction titles Kristin Hannah wrote before her later historical blockbusters such as The Nightingale and The Great Alone. Reviewers praised her skill with character interiority and emotion: The Washington Post Book World noted that Hannah is superb at delving into her main characters' psyches and delineating nuances of feeling, while The Seattle Times called the book enormously entertaining. It remains a popular book-club selection among her contemporary novels.

Key characters

  • Angie DeSaria MaloneA woman who, after a painful divorce and years of failed attempts to have a child, returns home and runs the family restaurant
  • Lauren RibidoA hardworking seventeen-year-old whom Angie hires and later takes in after she is abandoned

Book details

First published
2004
Length
388 pages
Reading time
7 hours
Genre
Fiction
Goodreads rating
4.18 (122k ratings)

Critical reception

  • The Washington Post Book World praised Hannah for delving into her main characters' psyches and delineating nuances of feeling.
  • The Seattle Times described the novel as enormously entertaining.
  • The book has remained a popular book-club selection among Kristin Hannah's contemporary women's-fiction titles.

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