“In truth, there are only two realities: the one for people who are in love or love each other, and the one for people who are standing outside all that.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“Forget art. Put your trust in ice cream.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“Every relationship has at least one really good day. What I mean is, no matter how sour things go, there's always that day. That day is always in your possession. That's the day you remember. You get old and you think: well, at least I had that day. It happened once. You think all the variables might just line up again. But they don't. Not always. I once talked to a woman who said, "Yeah, that's the day we had an angel around.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“What's agitating about solitude is the inner voice telling you that you should be mated to somebody, that solitude is a mistake. The inner voice doesn't care about who you find. It just keeps pestering you, tormenting you--if you happen to be me--with homecoming queens first, then girls next door, and finally anybody who might be pleased to see you now and then at the dinner table and in bed on occasion. You look up from reading the newspaper and realize that no one loves you, and no one burns for you.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“There's nothing to talk about to strangers anymore, if you know what I mean. Everything I want to say, I say to her.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“The worst mistakes I've made have been the ones directed by sweet-natured hopefulness.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“As my mother once said to me, ‘They’re quite crazy, dear – men are. What you look for is one of them whose insanity is large enough, and calm and generous enough, to include you.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“What a midwesterner he was, a thoroughly unhip guy with his heart in the usual place, on the sleeve, in plain sight.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“You are a real find and you keep me satisfied, up to a point. After all, I'm a malcontent and you can't change that.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“I don't think that most women have to prove that they're real women. You live long enough, you graduate to being real.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“In February, the overcast sky isn’t gloomy so much as neutral and vague. It’s a significant factor in the common experience of depression among the locals. The snow crunches under your boots and clings to your trousers, to the cuffs, and once you’re inside, the snow clings to you psyche, and eventually you have to go to the doctor. The past soaks into you in this weather because the present is missing almost entirely.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“There is no weather in malls.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“The problem with love and God, the two of them, is how to say anything about them that doesn’t annihilate them instantly with the wrong words, with untruth. . . . In this sense, love and God are equivalents. We feel both, but because we cannot speak clearly about them, we end up–wordless, inarticulate—by denying their existence altogether, and, pfffffft, they die.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“Gainfully unemployed, very proud of it, too.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“As the poet says, all happy couples are alike, it's the unhappy ones who create the stories. I'm no longer a story. Happiness has made me fade into real life.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“Here's a profundity, the best I can do: sometimes you just know… You just know when two people belong together. I had never really experienced that odd happenstance before, but this time, with her, I did. Before, I was always trying to make my relationships work by means of willpower and forced affability. This time I didn't have to strive for anything. A quality of ease spread over us. Whatever I was, well, that was apparently what she wanted… To this day I don't know exactly what she loves about me and that's because I don't have to know. She just does. It was the entire menu of myself. She ordered all of it.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“When you break the heart of the philosopher, you must apply great force and cunning strategy, but when the deed is completed, the heart lies in great stony ruin at your feet. If you succeed in breaking it, the job is done once and for all. It will not be repaired.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“You think that what I've told you is an anecdote. But really it isn't. It's my whole life. It's the only story I have.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“Making love to him was like going through a car wash, except you came out dirtier and more alive at the other end.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“At least with pets, and for all I know, people too, intelligence and quick-wittedness have nothing to do with a talent for being loved, or being kind, nothing at all, less than nothing.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“You can not figure out love without figuring out death, too, but the effort it takes can knock the wind out of you. Love is the first cousin of death, they're acquainted with each other, they go to the same family reunions.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“Because it is the Midwest, no one really glitters because no one has to, it's more of a dull shine, like frequently used silverware.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“Oh”, he said. He was trying to smile, but it was a brave smile, a sickroom smile, and I was sorry I had caused it. I had apparently taken the wind out of his sails. His discouragement wasn’t a good sign. Men should stand up to me more than that. They have to fight back to satisfy me. They have to face me down.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“intelligence and quick-wittedness have nothing to do with a talent for being loved, or being kind, nothing at all, less than nothing.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“At least with pets, and for all I know , people too, intelligence and quick-wittiness have nothing to do with a talent for being loved, or being kind, nothing at all, less than nothing.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“Anyway, what I've just told you was what prompted the chair incident. I had grown big, and he was trying to belittle me.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“Every day is a new day when filled with dawn feeling, a virgin day, until it gets fucked up by human activity and becomes history.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
“You’ll have your heart cut out with a grapefruit knife; love does that. You won’t have a chance against me until you’re very old, if then.”
― Charles Baxter, quote from The Feast of Love
Charles Baxter
Born place: in Minneapolis, The United States
Born date May 13, 1947
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“She tried to imagine what Charles would do if another man came up to him and said, "You bring me joy.”
― Patricia Briggs, quote from Hunting Ground
“A slow nature such as Maurice's appears insensitive, for it needs time even to feel.”
― E.M. Forster, quote from Maurice
“Shall I show you the half-dozen other rooms in this hospital where these scenes are repeated? And what of the other hospitals? Printing House Square is small and tame. Even in the private institutions uptown you can see a show just like this: there is nothing as disgusting as an obese cadaver in which all the futile pleasures of many years finally arise to fill it full-blown with stinking rotten gases. The city is burning and under siege. And we are in a war in which everyone is killed and no one is remembered."
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"Is there someone you love?"
"Yes."
"A woman?"
"Yes."
"Then go home to her."
"And who will remember her?"
"No one. That's just the point. You must take care of all that now.”
― Mark Helprin, quote from Winter's Tale
“I don't know what that means. To truly live."
"To find work that you love, and work harder than other men. To learn the languages of the earth, and love the sounds of the words and the things they describe. To love food and music and drink. Fully love them. To love weather, and storms, and the smell of rain. To love heat. To love cold. To love sleep and dreams. To love the newness of each day.”
― Pete Hamill, quote from Forever
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