What He Must Be …If He Wants to Marry My Daughter
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We cannot continue to send our children to Caesar for their education and be surprised when they come home as Romans.
The key is to understand that our children don't belong to us—they belong to God. Our goal as parents must not be limited by our own vision. I am a finite, sinful, selfish man. Why would I want to plan out my children's future when I can entrust them to the infinite, omnipotent, immutable, sovereign Lord of the universe? I don't want to tell God what to do with my children—I want Him to tell me!
We do marriage according to Dr. Phil, raise our children according to Dr. Spock, govern our sex lives according to Dr. Ruth, and only run to Dr. Jesus when things have gotten so bad we can’t find another doctor to help us.
Our Heavenly Father doesn’t count to three when He gives us a command. It is not a sin to disobey God when He counts to three; it is simply a sin not to obey God. And delayed obedience is disobedience.
The question is not whether or not our children sin later in life. The question is, do we have a biblical obligation to train them before they leave home?
If you want to be a godly head of a family, you must ensure that there is Christian harmony among those under you, appropriate for a house where the leader fears God. JOHN BUNYAN
Love is an act of the will accompanied by emotion that leads to action on behalf of its object.
Modern American dating is no more than glorified divorce practice.
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